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2017-06-18, 01:57 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: Is OOTS even trying anymore?
First of all, SEEMS childish? Man, it IS childish, on Andi's part. Also, the longer period of time actually ADDS to the argument that Bandy was the more reasonable one, as she was willing to indulge Andi's complaints and questions and only snapped once Andi continued to insult her and generally be insubordinate.
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2017-06-18, 01:57 PM (ISO 8601)
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Apparently the fact that the exact words were untruths (or exaggerations, or hyperbole)
was enough to have "made her temporarily violently insane" - that suggests that quite close attention was paid.
The hit to Andi's ego - the mere overtone of "You're a bad engineer for not doing what you should have been doing", so to speak - was it.
Andi has a huge ego, has shown it in the past - and when it's struck directly, it's the last straw for her, from her own perspective.Last edited by hamishspence; 2017-06-18 at 02:01 PM.
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2017-06-18, 01:59 PM (ISO 8601)
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Umm..No. No, she didn't. Andi was in the middle of insulting Bandanna when Bandy snapped at her.
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2017-06-18, 02:10 PM (ISO 8601)
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Pretending to tolerate something only to then snap is bad. That is even morte true when you are the captain and can simply deal with the annoyance unilaterally (even if that means delegating somebody else to deal with Andi).
Andi was talking to the helmsman.
Apparently the fact that the exact words were untruths (or exaggerations, or hyperbole)
was enough to have "made her temporarily violently insane" - that suggests that quite close attention was paid.
Indeed the position that I have made more clear recently is that the exact words being screamed weren't so important.
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2017-06-18, 02:14 PM (ISO 8601)
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Okay.
I was specificaly answering to your reference of Bandana disturbing Andi while doing her homework, making her lashing out 15 years after the fact.
When I was 10 years old, I physicaly lashed out at a boy my age. I hit him in the ear. There was blood. In retrospect, I could have killed him.
Instead of hitting the guy on the head with a broom that day, I could have kept my grudge within me and waited to be a functional adult legally and emotionaly responsible for my actions so I could hit him a lot harder for childish reasons. Like Andi did.Yes, I am slightly egomaniac. Why didn't you ask?
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2017-06-18, 02:16 PM (ISO 8601)
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Yeah, it's some sort of combination of the two. The best way of putting it is that Bandana stole the job from Andi, from Andi's perspective.
Edit: I didn't say there wasn't rational basis for concern. I'm saying Andi, given that all of her issues were specifically surrounding the fact that Bandana was leader, wasn't concerned on that basis.
If her only motive was a long-standing desire to be in control then why did she run up on deck only once they were half-way through the pass. I would argue that that is when the level of damage had become untenable. You explanation is?Last edited by eggynack; 2017-06-18 at 02:20 PM.
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2017-06-18, 02:18 PM (ISO 8601)
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2017-06-18, 02:20 PM (ISO 8601)
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Do you not think that if you hunted down and attacked the annoying king (now man) is more understandable than if you hunted down and attacked a random guy. (Still mad either way what with the hunting down) but you don't think the "why?" is a little stronger in the second case.
Your claiming that hunting somebody down is "Like Andi did" simply bears no relation with the actual comic.
Sure but that's not relevant to W's no about how Bandi had spoken to Andi more recently than Andi had spoken to Bandi.Last edited by Emperor Demonking; 2017-06-18 at 02:23 PM.
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2017-06-18, 02:22 PM (ISO 8601)
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No, no it isn't. Being able to be patient with Andi, even when Andi is annoying her, does not make Bandanna bad. It makes her a FREAKING ADULT. Anyone's patience has its limits and Andi managed to reach hers. The fact that she snapped is a flaw on her part, but Andi's response was in no way justified.
As for delegating, Andi is, again, an adult. A high-ranking one, at that. Bandanna should not have to yank another crewmember away from their job in order to babysit Andi. She should be able to obey the Captain's orders.
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2017-06-18, 02:22 PM (ISO 8601)
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2017-06-18, 02:24 PM (ISO 8601)
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2017-06-18, 02:26 PM (ISO 8601)
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She wasn't actually patient with her. She bellowed in her face. Nobody has said andi's "response" was justified.
Why is Bandi allowed to snap and have it be dismissed as a mere "flaw" and Andi is not?
As for delegating, Andi is, again, an adult. A high-ranking one, at that. Bandanna should not have to yank another crewmember away from their job in order to babysit Andi. She should be able to obey the Captain's orders.
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2017-06-18, 02:26 PM (ISO 8601)
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I was "going on and on about it" because you continued discussing it. If you didn't want me to reply to you, or thought we should have dropped the topic owing to its irrelevance, you could have said so.
Obviously it was wrong. But I assume you are a reasonable person. Can you put your hand on your heart and say with 100% confidence that you would not have reacted bady if you were in Andi's shoes. You're going to die. Your captain's awful. And you remain cool and collected?
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2017-06-18, 02:33 PM (ISO 8601)
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"Andi's shoes" apparently include being an egomaniac, is the thing.
(Of course, that makes the argument tautological: Given that you don't respect the person who dared to lean toward you as she yelled at you to do your job, and you're mortally offended that she'd give orders to you, and your reaction to these factors is violent assault, will you violently assault her? Only one possible answer to that, it's already encoded in the sentence!)Orth Plays: Currently Baldur's Gate II
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2017-06-18, 02:36 PM (ISO 8601)
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You seem to have a tragic misunderstanding of the relationship between Andi and Bandana. Bandana is not Andi's friend, acting unreasonably towards the legitimate concerns of a person they claim to care about, Bandana is Andi's boss, and is if anything acting remarkably restrained towards somebody who is actively in the process of dereliction of duty, insubordination and possibly mutiny.
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2017-06-18, 02:40 PM (ISO 8601)
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Because Bandanna's snapping didn't involve knocking anyone unconscious?
As for the insubordination, i'll admit I phrased that badly. Theoretically, Andi is supposed to remain at her post until told otherwise. She left her post to confront Bandanna about her decision to stay down the pass instead of avoiding the giants. Bandanna then explained herself and gave a compromise solution. Andi then continued to object, at which point Bandanna told her that she wasn't going to get what she wanted. At this point, And I should have returned to her post and stopped her attempts to dispute a superior officer. My point still stands: Andi is an adult and Bandanna should not have to appoint someone to babysit her. They both made mistakes here, i'll cope to that, but Andi's was far more serve.
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2017-06-18, 02:43 PM (ISO 8601)
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That was approximately her 5-10th reaction to this issue, depending on how you count the occurrences. The other reactions were all totally calm. That's patience.
Why is Bandi allowed to snap and have it be dismissed as a mere "flaw" and Andi is not?
What order did she not obey before the bellowing?
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2017-06-18, 02:49 PM (ISO 8601)
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It is your boss who has especial duty not to create a physical confrontation. If they were freinds or equals then perhanps Bandies action would be more understandable.
As for the insubordination, i'll admit I phrased that badly. Theoretically, Andi is supposed to remain at her post until told otherwise. She left her post to confront Bandanna about her decision to stay down the pass instead of avoiding the giants. Bandanna then explained herself and gave a compromise solution. Andi then continued to object, at which point Bandanna told her that she wasn't going to get what she wanted. At this point, And I should have returned to her post and stopped her attempts to dispute a superior officer. My point still stands: Andi is an adult and Bandanna should not have to appoint someone to babysit her. They both made mistakes here, i'll cope to that, but Andi's was far more serve.
Of course, that makes the argument tautological: Given that you don't respect the person who dared to lean toward you as she yelled at you to do your job, and you're mortally offended that she'd give orders to you, and your reaction to these factors is violent assault, will you violently assault her? Only one possible answer to that, it's already encoded in the sentence!
I was "going on and on about it" because you continued discussing it. If you didn't want me to reply to you, or thought we should have dropped the topic owing to its irrelevance, you could have said so.
The irony of you getting on someone else's case for using an un-fitting analogy is astounding.
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Andi could not have created a physical confrontation when she hit Band with a wrench, as Bandi had already caused a physical confrontation when she forced Andi to lean back.
Three people had just died because of Bandi wanting to help the Order. It seems a stretch to call that nothing. Andi was snappng based on the fact that Bandi had lad them to their deaths. That's nothing.
Its a stretch to call than order. Even if it were, it is a stretc t suggest that orgotting once in the middle of battle a quater-given order that she would refuse a direct order given then.
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2017-06-18, 02:59 PM (ISO 8601)
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2017-06-18, 03:03 PM (ISO 8601)
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Andi was already insane (or at least, had some kind of disorder) - narcissism, megalomania, whatever you like. She just concealed it.
Her statements here:
http://www.giantitp.com/comics/oots1066.html
reveal as big an out-of-touchness with reality as Miko showed in 409:
http://www.giantitp.com/comics/oots0409.htmlLast edited by hamishspence; 2017-06-18 at 03:23 PM.
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2017-06-18, 03:05 PM (ISO 8601)
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Entering someone's physical space does not constitute causing a physical confrontation. It seems incredibly unlikely that Bandana would have touched Andi had Andi not leaned back. And there is no evidence to support the opposite position.
Three people had just died because of Bandi wanting to help the Order. It seems a stretch to call that nothing. Andi was snappng based on the fact that Bandi had lad them to their deaths. That's nothing.
Its a stretch to call than order. Even if it were, it is a stretc t suggest that orgotting once in the middle of battle a quater-given order that she would refuse a direct order given then.
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If Andi has asserted her space by lightly touching Bandana so that she didn't continue to come forward as Andi came back would you call that escelatng to a physical confrontaton.? If you would then I simply canot agree with that.
Ths was not a verbal conrontation. Verbal refers to words. Bandi could simply have bellowed "Aaah" and the pertinent detals o the confrontation would be the same.
That's the basis of precisely none of her criticism or insults, and it happened after several insults throughout her presence in the comic.
When your captain directly tells you to do something, that is what an order is. And it was not followed.
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This again? Her insanity was anything but temporary.Last edited by Emperor Demonking; 2017-06-18 at 03:28 PM.
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2017-06-18, 03:37 PM (ISO 8601)
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Probably not, no. Physical contact is a necessary, but not sufficient, condition to constitute the initiation of a physical confrontation.
Ths was not a verbal conrontation. Verbal refers to words. Bandi could simply have bellowed "Aaah" and the pertinent detals o the confrontation would be the same.
And Bandi had also insulted Andi throught the comics too.
However, the first insult "stubborn little brat" is directly related to the deaths as they would still be alive if Andi was listened to about not being a ferry-service.
"Captain Bandana" is an object, not "directly tell[ing] you to do something"
and again even if it was a direct order - which it clearly was not - it stll happened numerous strips ago and forgetting somerthing told to you once in the middle of battle is not proof of an insubordinate personality.
Why? Because she used her best judgement as captain? Because she kept Bandi from flopping about by tying her up? Because like the rest of the crew she didn't untie her? Because she doesn't like Bandi (I guess we might be supposed to view this as proof of a disturbed mind)? What?
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