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When I turned 50, I began to look at death differently, knowing it will come sooner rather than later. I hope God is merciful to me rather than just when my time comes. I fear both eternal punishment and oblivion, but I also fear I will miss life.
I now try to enjoy life while I can. I am healthy (for my age) so I can enjoy the colors of a sunset, the sound of Mozart or Buffett, the taste of a White Castle slider, the smell of sauce on a Sunday morning, and the touch of a woman's skin.
I know life can turn quickly and through an act of man or nature I can be among those that suffer daily. I hope I live long enough to do all I wish or to gain enough wisdom that I can greet death as a friend when it does come.Last edited by Scarlet Knight; 2018-03-03 at 12:35 PM.
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That wide range is the result of one type of mind: the thinking human mind. If any beast were to develop human level intelligence and self-awareness, it would start manifesting in similar ways to ourselves. But, they don't.
But something over 99.99999% of humans have done none of those things. Should you really judge a species by the performance of a miniscule number of freaks? Perhaps more fundamentally, what does "judging" them mean anyway? If we grant, even absent any coherent reason, that humankind is "the crowning organism in nature", what follows from that exactly?
In the last analysis we do what we do because to do otherwise is suicidal, and if we love ourselves we will expand and develop rather than shrink and rot. Are you a freak or are you a lemming?
If that is the true measure of species-wide achievement, then the "crowning organism" has to be some kind of fungus. Those things grow everywhere.
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The ability to understand death may be a function of the ability to reason.
Ability to create technology and culture and to communicate like humans would is not. Those also require particular arrangement of limbs and digits, particular vocal chords, particular sensory organs etc.
The achievements of humanity are not constructs of pure reason, they are pragmatic adaptions of particular limits and traits of humanity. To that all other animals should or even could take the same path can trivially be deemed nonsense.
Irrelevant argument. The dumbest humans who can be demonstrated to fear death cannot communicate plans of Golden Gate bridge either. Once again, you are merely assuming that awareness of mortality requires or entails a level of ability that it has not been shown to require nor entail.
Again: animals who do have relationship with humans do communicate with them and are arguably better at understanding humans than humans are at understanding them.
Where your argument fails, is again the assumption of arbitrarily high ability. The dumbest of humans provenly have trouble getting through to other humans, despite fearing death. Heck, a human does not need to be particularly stupid, growing up in different linguistic area may create a sufficient barrier to prevent communication of complex ideas. So the idea that awareness of mortality requires or entails the ability for, say, birds to read and form letters in the sky, is nothing short of utter nonsense. (Nevermind all species of birds which can communicate information via pattern flying, or those species of birds with known ability to mimic and understand human speech to some degree.)
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Animals are extremely similar to us, and we are similar to them. You are 90% the same as a cat... That 10% difference means a lot due to the value of intelligence... but if you were dropped naked in the wild, the cat would outlive 90% of humans.
The problem with your view is that it shows humans as amazing... when we have lots of flaws, and we have a long way to go to become the pinacle of anything.
Besides, humans took a long time to figure this stuff out... 97% of the time we have existed we were pretty dumb. At least as dumb as some of the smart animals out there. It is only quite recently that we started grasping this stuff. Give them a bit of time (relatively speaking), and they could catch up with us.
Why are you so anxious to turn animals into people? Or, is it the other way around?Last edited by Aliquid; 2018-03-03 at 02:30 PM.
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The question "why are people afraid of death" seems kinda stupid in my opinion. I'm pretty sure if you asked pretty much anyone and they answered honestly they'd say "yes". I know some people near the end of their lives have "made peace with death" but I'm pretty sure when they say that they mean "I understand nothing I can do will change what's going to happen to me so I've accepted my fate" but the actual unknown of what happens after the lights go off is pretty terrifying.
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This is a product of human success, though. We're hyper-specialised animals at a social level, to the point where the majority of our species doesn't need to engage with the mechanics of acquiring food. We're a social species and depend to an extent on the support network of our fellows, and that happened in the wild too. But we're not hyper-specialised at a physiological level. An individual human still has the problem-solving brain and the physiological tools that it can figure out how to survive if given the opportunity. Being removed from the support and communications networks that inform learning obviously wouldn't help, but it's still possible to reason things out from base principles and pretty much all humans have the abilities to do so if pushed. That we don't isn't, mostly, because we can't, but because we don't have to.
So while there's a perception that urbanised humans are "soft" and there may be some truth to that, certainly when the stakes are less than critical, it's still easy to underestimate human intelligence. Being removed from our support networks is an environmental challenge more than anything - an this is not only something almost all animals struggle wit, but if anything adaptation to such challenges is one of the signature successes of the human species. If dropped in "the wild", sure, a lot of people would struggle initially, but if they survived the first few days, they'd probably learn to thrive. I'd put my money on a human over a domestic cat.Last edited by Aedilred; 2018-03-03 at 07:02 PM.
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No, but we live on the highway, in tall buildings, near lakes and rivers, in buildings with stoves and electric wires, etc. If we didn't fear death, we would most likely die sooner. Evolution selects against such people.
[Besides, entering death is often excruciatingly painful.]
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1) All material evidence points towards humans being as much a product of evolution as all other animals. Tagging "random" and "mix'n'max" before "evolution" is irrelevant.
2) You have not demonstrated that what you think humans are intended to do is, in fact, what humans are intended to do. In fact, you have not demonstrated humans are intended to do anything.
3) The rest of your argument just shows you are oblivious to what my criticism is even about. You are correct that human reason is aware of mortality, and you are correct that all traits of humanity influence human reason. Where your argument persistently falls apart is that you have not demonstrated that awareness of mortality actually requires all traits of humanity. You merely assume that a creature aware of mortality must be equivalent to humans and then falsely expect them to be able of all things humans - when in reality we have reasons to believe that awareness of mortality is a much lower bar to pass and hence expecting that mere awareness of mortality somehow requires or entails equality humans is nonsense.
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2) The "dumb people" I refer to are either actual kids, or permanently stuck on the cognitive levels of kids due to well-known developmental disorderds. So yeah, they are "born that way".
3) "Born idiots probably don't understand death anyway"? I'm sorry, wasn't it supposed to be me who is underestimating "dumb people"? Also, that "probably" undercuts your own argument. It shows you believe "born idiots" don't understand death, just like you believe animals don't understand death.
Originally Posted by Donnadogsoth
When a cat pushes its empty food cup to its owner and meows to get their attention, it is telling it is hungry, and any human who isn't completely ignorant of cats can understand that.
When a dog lays down and refuses to move when its owner tries to take it to a vet, it is telling it does not want to go to the vet, and any human who isn't completely ignorant of dogs can understand that.
When a snake hisses at you, it is telling every animal around it that if they don't leave it alone, it will deliver a poisonous bite, and all animals which aren't fundamentally ignorant of snakes understand that. In fact, a snake's warning hiss is such an universal signal that animals which are not snakes, such as cats, hedgehogs and owls, have been demonstrated to mimic a snake's hiss to tell other predators to GTFO.
And, of course, there's famous primates such as Koko the gorilla (misspelled its name earlier) who were taught human sign language, and when asked whether a thing is dead or not, answered that those things are dead in the sign language of humans.
Just the example of gorillas alone proves you are doubly wrong: we have animals which are aware of death and capable of learning human communications, yet which still demonstrably aren't capable of all the same things as humans are.
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And that's why your ending rhetoric is almost hilariously backwards. You assume I'm trying to cast animals as people because you can't grok the idea of an animal which is aware of its death, yet still not equal to human."It's the fate of all things under the sky,
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You underestimate the power of an understanding of one's own mortality, of what that would imply of the given mind. It's not like checking a box in a computer programme to toggle a function on or off. In understanding death one would understand one's self as a mortal being, and grasp that there is a world that is not oneself, which created oneself, and which will survive oneself. One's eyes would be opened. One would also grasp sexuality as intimately related to the mystery of death. Sex and death, eros and thanatos, and the view of oneself “from above,” as a soul, rather than mindlessly rutting, consuming, posturing, fleeing, and engaging in the sort of “funktionlust” or joy in the exercise of one's physical powers; here one expects a superstitious mentality to arise. Is Koko the gorilla superstitious? If one is aware of death, one will tend to wonder what things happen to oneself after death, and also worry about whether those events relate to how one lives one's life prior to it. There, is morality, a sense of the eerie, a potential to believe in ghosts, spirituality or “relation to relationships,” and the basis of {RULES}. An animal that was aware of its death would have its eyes opened and it would act as men, to the limits of its physical capacities. And, when it encountered men, it would talk to them, whether as equals or viewing men as gods, but it would talk to them and not as "I'm hungry" but as "We wish a truce". Even ants could talk to us if they really wanted to.
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I fear death as in fearing oblivion. I don't worry about whether my death will be painful or not, but I do worry about never getting to realise all my hopes, dreams and plans before I die. A nightmare scenario would be my obituary reading "he had so much potential". I would much rather die as someone who had much to the world (but preferably not at all).
I'm going to split your post into bite-size chunks, because it kind of needs to be answered statement by statement...
This I agree with. In fact, I'm pretty sure I agree with it even more than you do, as you seem to be of the mind that an understanding of mortality is a binary thing which you either have or you don't (much like how a checkbox is checked or not, with possibly powerful implications for how the program will behave), while I see no reason for why it wouldn't be a range, since that's pretty much how all other kinds of understanding operates.
This I agree with, except I think you've gotten the cause and effect mixed up.
Understanding that the world is separate from oneself is probably a core requirement for being able to parse the world even for a fly's brain, because it's a huge waste of brainpower to attempt to bring all you need and desire to yourself psionically. Understanding the distinction between the self and the world is a prerequisite for awareness of your own mortality, not the other way around.
As for understanding that the world both has preceeded and will succeed you, I'd say it's linked with you understanding that you can be born and that you will die. Now, I'm also pretty sure that most species possessing empathy (a trait which I know to exist among both reptiles, birds and mammals, and probably in several of the other animal classes as well) will have at least a rudimentary understanding of these, as seeing a being you understand to be like yourself being born or die is a pretty simple way of demonstrating to you that the same happened you and may happen to you.
Wait, what? What does sex have to do with death at all, apart from creating more living being which can die?
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Am I reading you right in that what you're saying is that the mind sits in some kind of soul, and animals don't have souls, thus rendering them mindless? Well, I'll point out to you that a number of people in this thread have both said themselves to be atheists (and thus not believing in the mind being housed in anything else but your body) and fear death, so an understanding of your mortality demonstrably does not always lead to you seeing yourself as a soul.
Superstitions arise where either effects have been observed, but a cause is indeterminable (e.g. weather, diseases), where two unrelated effects have been observed at the same time and are assumed to be linked, or where some actions seem powerful enough that they should cause some effect (e.g. breaking a mirror causing bad luck). All in all, superstitions arise from our brains being hard-wired into interpretting the world according to a strict cause-and-effect pattern, and if we can't find one part of the equation, we will invent our own. As such, superstition is rather a product of ignorance rather than understanding, and I take for given that any animal that can learn cause-and-effect relationships will display at least the second form of superstition.
Here is where your leaps to conclusions reach escape velocity and crash straight into the moon. How would an awareness of you own mortality grant you an understanding of diplomacy?
But would we listen? Would we even recognise it as an attempt at communication? Humans are notoriously bad listeners when we don't want to listen. Why try to figure out if the animal is attempting to communicate with us when it's a chunk of meat and a pelt which willingly offers itself up to our spears? I admit that the ants have the advantage of generally not being seen as food, but then I don't think ants possess the empathy required to understand other organisms either.Last edited by Teddy; 2018-03-04 at 04:40 PM.
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Are we talking about the same thing? Do pigeons believe in ghosts? Or an afterlife? Or the need for rituals to placate spirits? Or are you referring to experiments where rats do nonproductive behaviour because they've been conditioned to get food one way and the way has been changed without them understanding the change?
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It's you who is treating it as an on/off-switch, because you can't grok a mind that stops at being aware of mortality and doesn't continue to be humanlike. The implications are in your head, not supported by actual science of either human or animal cognition.
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The fact that you stick to such terminology shows your knowledge is out-of-date when it comes to human cognition, why exactly should anyone take you seriously when it comes to animal cognition?
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The only credible path for you in this argument, would be to prove my remarks of Koko a hoax.
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You're the only one who thinks anything that's been said has anything to do with ants. I don't assume the abilities of a gorilla say anything about ants. I don't need to say anything at all about ants, to prove a flaw in your argumentation.
At this point I'm just repeating myself, but: the sole example of gorillas shows that there are creatures which a) can communicate with humans in human terms (sign language), b) are aware of mortality, and c) are not human equals physiologically, cognitively, culturally nor technologically. These are enough to demonstrate that your beliefs about what awareness of mortality requires or entails, are unrealistic and false.
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Begging the question of, if an animal is aware of death--if it has that concept in its mind, if its mind is capable of such sophisticated concepts--then why does it not follow through with the implications: afterlife, philosophy, culture, the sense of the eerie, ghosts, and above all {RULES}. No one has demonstrated any beast fears death, only that they experience fear in the presence of potential injury. I'm not buying Koko. If Koko knew what death was it would pose an existential problem for her that she would have to deal with psychologically. I have seen no evidence that foreknowledge of mortality has any such effect on anything other than man.
And, ants are never irrelevant.
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What other understanding is there? Either one knows one will die or one does not. Saying one knows that other things die is irrelevant. One has to understand that oneself is mortal, and that knowledge opens the door to {RULES}, etc..
As for understanding that the world both has preceeded and will succeed you, I'd say it's*linked*with you understanding that you can be born and that you will die. Now, I'm also pretty sure that most species possessing empathy (a trait which I know to exist among both reptiles, birds and mammals, and probably in several of the other animal classes as well) will have at least a rudimentary understanding of these, as seeing a being you understand to be like yourself being born or die is a pretty simple way of demonstrating to you that the same happened you and may happen to you.
Wait, what? What does sex have to do with death at all, apart from creating more living being which can die?*
Am I reading you right in that what you're saying is that the mind sits in some kind of soul, and animals don't have souls, thus rendering them mindless? Well, I'll point out to you that a number of people in this thread have both said themselves to be atheists (and thus not believing in the mind being housed in anything else but your body) and fear death, so an understanding of your mortality demonstrably does not always lead to you seeing yourself as a soul.
Superstitions arise where either effects have been observed, but a cause is indeterminable (e.g. weather, diseases), where two unrelated effects have been observed at the same time and are assumed to be linked, or where some actions seem powerful enough that they*should*cause some effect (e.g. breaking a mirror causing bad luck). All in all, superstitions arise from our brains being hard-wired into interpretting the world according to a strict cause-and-effect pattern, and if we can't find one part of the equation, we will invent our own. As such, superstition is rather a product of ignorance rather than understanding, and I take for given that any animal that can learn cause-and-effect relationships will display at least the second form of superstition.
Here is where your leaps to conclusions reach escape velocity and crash straight into the moon. How would an awareness of you own mortality grant you an understanding of diplomacy?
But would we listen? Would we even recognise it as an attempt at communication? Humans are notoriously bad listeners when we don't want to listen. Why try to figure out if the animal is attempting to communicate with us when it's a chunk of meat and a pelt which willingly offers itself up to our spears? I admit that the ants have the advantage of generally not being seen as food, but then I don't think ants possess the empathy required to understand other organisms either.
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I don't know... I'm not particularly afraid of death. And I wouldn't say I'm a moron, or that I'm an animal. I mean I'm not eager to die or what-not. But it isn't something that bothers me that much, the possibility of it.
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I'm talking about the pigeon superstition experiments, where they come up with elaborate rituals to get food and thoroughly stick to these rituals despite them being totally unnecessary. Poke a button, wait five seconds works - and yet pigeons will come up with very elaborate ways to fill those five seconds, stick to these elaborate systems, and even try to communicate these elaborate systems to each other. It's pattern recognition creating patterns where there are none, and that's at the heart of a lot of superstitions.
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@Knaight: you're going after a red herring. It's clear Donnadogsoth is using "superstition" to refer to belief in the supernatural, and is not interested in any actual psychological or etiological study of "superstition" as the process of mistaken cause and effect. You don't need to prove either kind of superstition in any kind of animal, because the only reason to link that with fear of death is Donnadogsoth's assumption that they must go together.
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I think when it comes to human v animal, you have to carefully define animal. Anything under Animalia? Sure. Different definition? Maybe.
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That's um, quite an example there.
Anyway, it's not like I'll be able to miss experiencing things, since I won't exist. It's only something I can dread beforehand, because it's not like there's an 'me' left post-mortem to, you know, suffer or anything. Worrying about experiencing something (oblivion) that by definition I can't actually experience on account of there being no me left is, at least to me, a simply incoherent question.Last edited by warty goblin; 2018-03-05 at 10:18 AM.
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