Originally Posted by
EvilDMMk3
Weighing in here, I take a more middle road. You are not the boss but you are, in many ways Primus inter pares. It is not your job to make sure everyone is having fun, its everyone's job to make sure everyone else is having fun. Its not your job to act as referee when two players are at each other's throats, its everyone's job to prevent that state of affairs. BUT, if these functions of the group are not working you are at least the figurehead best places to puzzle out why.