Well, I want Soleh to be loatheable, but not evil in and of themselves. Like, a DM could make them into the bad invader guys, or the good innocent guys. It's far easier, speaking as a feminist here, to loathe a male-centric culture, and the "Raaah me smash" thing we have going lends itself to a crusading, invading, aggressively religious nation. I'll go with a male deity, just because it honestly does fit.