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Thread: Lending Stolen Weapons
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2017-06-25, 11:19 PM (ISO 8601)
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- May 2009
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- In a castle under the sea
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Lending Stolen Weapons
I had an unusual situation in a game earlier today. The party encountered a crazy guy who (after some talking) stole my character's dagger. Another character disarmed him, and I naturally assumed I'd get the dagger back; however, after some more talking, the other character re-armed the crazy guy with my dagger despite my protests, because he was supposed to help us in the rest of the adventure; I didn't get the weapon back until after the guy turned out to be a wererat and we had to kill him. (At least he didn't actually use the dagger against us, or I would have been even more pissed.) Short of having my character attack either the crazy guy or the PC, I'm not sure what I could have done.
I realize this is kind of a specific situation, but...does anyone have advice on how I should have handled it?
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2017-06-25, 11:41 PM (ISO 8601)
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- Nov 2009
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Re: Lending Stolen Weapons
1. Don't play with people who are annoying.
Failing that...
2. Don't play with GMs who allow people to annoy each other.
Failing that...
3. Don't play systems where it is easy for people to annoy each other.It always amazes me how often people on forums would rather accuse you of misreading their posts with malice than re-explain their ideas with clarity.
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2017-06-26, 01:45 AM (ISO 8601)
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- Oct 2014
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- Tulips Cheese & Rock&Roll
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Re: Lending Stolen Weapons
Talk to the player, say you think it isn't cool if he hands out your stuff.
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2017-06-26, 02:20 AM (ISO 8601)
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Re: Lending Stolen Weapons
Last edited by TheCountAlucard; 2017-06-26 at 02:25 AM.
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2017-06-26, 03:44 AM (ISO 8601)
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- Oct 2012
Re: Lending Stolen Weapons
1) Let it go. It's a knife. Who actually cares?
2) If you do actually care, talk to the player. If it's bugging you enough to be an OOC issue then resolve it OOC. Don't try to resolve OOC issues with IC solutions.
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2017-06-26, 05:49 AM (ISO 8601)
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- Nov 2010
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2017-06-26, 08:19 AM (ISO 8601)
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- May 2009
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- In a castle under the sea
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Re: Lending Stolen Weapons
No.
Asked for it back? Like, used your words? Explained to the other PC that the guy who took your weapon seemed suspicious and you'd rather he not be armed with a lethal weapon?
That requires having a breadth of options and knowing which will be annoying ahead of time.
Failing that...
3. Don't play systems where it is easy for people to annoy each other.
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2017-06-26, 08:25 AM (ISO 8601)
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- Dec 2014
Re: Lending Stolen Weapons
"No" as in "No, the knife was not just an ordinary knife" or "No, the knife was not my only weapon"?
Last edited by goto124; 2017-06-26 at 08:25 AM.
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2017-06-26, 08:39 AM (ISO 8601)
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- Oct 2014
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- Tulips Cheese & Rock&Roll
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Re: Lending Stolen Weapons
Talk to the other player. He probably figures this guy is going to do more good for your team than harm, he figures the guy will be more effective at that when armed and he figured your knife is the weapon the rest of party is least likely to really miss. You think he shouldn't be handing out your stuff, because it is your stuff. You two are playing the game differently. Talk to him about it.
The Hindsight Awards, results: See the best movies of 1999!
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2017-06-26, 02:52 PM (ISO 8601)
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- Oct 2010
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- Dallas, TX
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Re: Lending Stolen Weapons
Say it clearly and unambiguously: "Hold it. That's my knife, not yours. Give away your things, but if you try to give away my things, you're a thief."
Set up a parallel: "As long as we're giving him other people's things, I give him the fighter's helm, the wizard's wand, and the cleric's underpants."
But talk about it. Directly and openly, without threatening violence, but also without budging or allowing others to change the subject.
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2017-06-26, 05:48 PM (ISO 8601)
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- Mar 2008
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2017-06-26, 06:07 PM (ISO 8601)
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- Nov 2009
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Re: Lending Stolen Weapons
It always amazes me how often people on forums would rather accuse you of misreading their posts with malice than re-explain their ideas with clarity.
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2017-06-26, 07:10 PM (ISO 8601)
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- May 2009
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- In a castle under the sea
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Re: Lending Stolen Weapons
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2017-06-27, 11:23 AM (ISO 8601)
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- Nov 2016
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- SoCal
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2017-06-27, 11:42 AM (ISO 8601)
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- Nov 2010
Re: Lending Stolen Weapons
Not necessarily. Even if you fail to foresee a group being terrible, you can always just leave. It can help to take measures like meeting people in social contexts other than roleplaying beforehand.
I still hold the opinion that a bad game is worse than no game at all. I've stuck with groups I knew were bad, and I've regretted that terribly. If roleplaying is your only in-person social interaction and there's nothing else nearby, you can try branching out to find friends in other hobbies and spaces.