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It works very well. I'm a bad person for using it as my main spy tactic >.<
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I had that very video in mind, and mostly play TF2. I'm the one who introduced my boyfriend to the game. At a convention in 2010, we were cosplaying as the BLU Spy and the RED Sniper, too, but we didn't come across any fan, so we didn't get to confuse them with French kissing. Oh well.
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2012-04-16, 06:33 AM (ISO 8601)
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Aw it's not so bad! I think all bodies are kind of silly looking... I mean, we're a bit squishy and there are... dangly bits and... corners, and lumps... and what's up with tongues? and... hair?! I think the Idealised Female Form is more attractive than the Idealised Male Form, probably a lot because of the male gaze and how we're taught to judge women's bodies and appreciate sexy women. But also because I like curves more than muscles. An individual woman could be all angular and muscular (and still gorgeous, just not my personal type) and an individual man could be soft and slender (and still masculine, just my type!).
I was like ...
... then phew!
Yeah... I love the idea of being in touch with life and feeling like a pregnant fertile mother goddess (I hope I feel that way some day! And am also actually pregnant at the time rather than insane!) ... but no.
What? We teach little boys to be tough and self-centred and laugh at them when they model caring behaviours like imagining nurturing baby dolls? We also teach little girls to be "good" and "quiet" and to put others first? And then the girls turn out to be statistically more compassionate and the boys statistically more assertive? Why! It must be Mother Nature's will! It's inherent! Built in! Women are wishy washy empathic nurturers and men are tough scientific fighters.
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2012-04-16, 06:38 AM (ISO 8601)
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Depends on what exactly you mean. If I had the option of just waking up one day happy with my body as it is I don't think I would take it, because that would require spending the rest of my life as a man, which is not a happy thought. Obviously logic would dictate that this shouldn't actually be a problem; if I were to suddenly want to be a man then I would want to be a man and so it wouldn't be a bad thing, but logic schmogic. I would, on the other hand, be pretty happy with having been born XX.
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2012-04-16, 07:02 AM (ISO 8601)
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2012-04-16, 07:05 AM (ISO 8601)
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*spots avatar*
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2012-04-16, 07:10 AM (ISO 8601)
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Spoiler[QUOTE=KenderWizard;13075730]Haha, poor K. I feel for her - so very much.
I should probably look into second wave, just to get a feel for the historical background for all this. I actually have no solid theoretical backing for anything, just my own and second-hand observations.
I thought you were studying this in small parts?
I'm gonna remember this! Nice little litmus test.
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Alright. This is a bit tricky...
We all objectify other people, all the time. We have to break down and categorize everyone around us to function. If you had to consider every pedestrian you passed, every cassier, every postman visiting your workplace... you wouldn't get anything else done.
So, we all objectify. It's always self-centered, and sometimes it's even self-serving. Compare it to eating a chocolate cake. You know it's bad for you, but you ignore it because you enjoy it right now. You eat your carrots later.
Same with sexy ads. You know she's a real person, but you ignore it right now.
I can't fault any individual for finding sexy ads sexy unless they also exhibit an aggressive or self-entitled attitude. Unfortunately, the loudmouth "I'd hit that!" types often have that attitude, but I'm straying from my point here.
Enjoying a person on a sexual/aesthetic level is akin to enjoying food, a beautiful sunrise, a nice action flick, etc. It's something we see, appreciate, then leave. Knowing a person well enough to treat them like a person is a very time-consuming and complex task, and we usually only do that when something is really worth it (compare watching an action flick to watching M and then having to read up on its cinematic impact and history).
And I must admit, this is one point where I can understand anti-feminists. Taking away sexiness would be pretty boring. We just need physically possible, equal opportunity sexiness. At least IMO.
Of course, there are problems with over-sexualisation, too. But that's not an equality issue.
Thanks a lot! I'm running out of time here, but I'll give them a look as soon as I get home
Agreed. The individual ad isn't necessary sexist. But it's part of a much larger, sexist structure in society. So, in a way, through the faults of everyone else, it becomes sexist anyway.
Racist jokes are only offensive because racism exists. Same thing.
If it isn't, then I've been doing it wrong
Or they're just testing to see if they still have a chance.
I... I'm a horrible person for laughing out loud at this, aren't I?
And at school no less... Thanks for the funny looks, Lea! XDSpoiler
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2012-04-16, 07:11 AM (ISO 8601)
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It's because boobs. No wait don't lynch me yet. At least in fencing large boobs can both prevent certain defensive and offensive moves and that's why busty women tend to tie them down but if it's video game big that only helps so much.
I've fought plenty of excellent female fencers but if their breasts were larger then a certain size I could always quite easily steal a hit from the side that was opposite to their sword.
Now I'm not saying women shouldn't wield a blade since they as anyone can get really good and I've had my ass handed to me by a fair amount of them."Elephant trunks should be used for elephant things only. Nothing else."
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2012-04-16, 07:22 AM (ISO 8601)
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I can just hear video game artists scramble for their pens to use this as the worst excuse ever.
"But, see, we gave her humongous boobs... so she can't fight! It's not sexist, it's just logic!"
(As a moderately-endowed (non-fencer) person, I can kinda vouch for your point, though. They get in the way a lot - same for long hair)Spoiler
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2012-04-16, 07:24 AM (ISO 8601)
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Thanks!
No, but nobody really said that. I came closest by saying that some of the guys I know don't want feminism to take away the hot women in bikinis in ads. Maybe I should have elaborated (or left that line out). I mean they specifically want gratuitous sexualised images of women on ads for totally unrelated things, like food products.
Specifically, there were some really bad ads a while ago. It actually happened twice (two different sports), the same company (selling snacks) used highly sexualised images of women posing in very skimpy approximations of sports uniforms, with blatant single entendres (pretty close to CHECK OUT HER BOOBIES) and a little picture of the snack in the bottom corner. This wasn't women who happened to be hot playing sport, this was explicitly models posing in a sort of "Imagine if women played sport, it'd be so hot to have them, like, lean over, and kick in their tiny miniskirts so you could see their panties" etc. Annnnyway, I complained about the ads to the Advertising Standards Authority, and posted on facebook the link to their online form because I knew some of my friends also wanted to complain. Instant backlash. Also, at a con AGES later, one of my friends told some people that "it was Kender who got those ads taken down!" (turned out he was using it as an example of me being feminist, which he thought was a good thing) but I got loads of
Random guy: "Hey, S says you got those ads taken down, what a joke he is, right?"
Me: "Well, I didn't do it single-handedly, but I was one of the people who complained."
Random guy: "WHAT?! BUT THE SEXY WIMMINZ I WANT TO LOOK AT THEM PRETENDING TO PLAY SPORTS!!"
So I guess I thought the ads were just so blatantly ridiculous that sexism wasn't even the most important reason for them to not exist?
But if you settled on female, you'd rather have a female body, right? I didn't word things very well before I guess.
Also large breasts stick out and you can reach them more easily than say a shoulder, or a belly, or a thigh. I've had girls get upset at me for always going for their boobs but really it was just because that's where the openings were and they never learned to guard them better.Jude P.
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2012-04-16, 07:25 AM (ISO 8601)
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"Elephant trunks should be used for elephant things only. Nothing else."
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2012-04-16, 07:26 AM (ISO 8601)
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It wouldn't be me. And to be honest, being a cis girl instead of a trans girl would mean that I wasn't me either, considering my experiences and such would've been completely different, I mean, I would've been really swell not to have to deal with this, but I would've come out a different person.
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A linkie that asks some questions to ponder about with regards to transness and figuring stuff out etc...
I'm reminded of Natalie's proposal for a gender identity test and I'm quoting it here even though it's not superrelevant because I like the concept so much:
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2012-04-16, 07:27 AM (ISO 8601)
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We didn't have the disguise or time needed for Pyro, he looks most like the Sniper, and I've heard the Spy/Sniper pairing was popular among many fans of yaoi. Not my thing, honestly, I've got a bunch of non-heterosexual OTPs in many fandoms, but not TF2. As long as I don't stumble into sprays in-game, I don't care much. Hell, as long as I don't stumble on any explicit or NSFW spray of any kind...
I'm never doing a cosplay that badly again, I can't believe I thought I did a good job at the time. I'm grateful the paper mask preserved my anonymity.
No problem! I've not played in ages, but hey. I'm Spycheck Me (Spies impersonate me a freakin' lot for some reason).
On the matter of boobs and fighters: yes, they can be a hindrance in many activities, but not only there are many ways to get around it, men somehow are rarely hindered by their gargantuan shoulderguards and weapons, fully closed helms, and other things that should logically affect their physical prowess.Originally Posted by on Dwarf Fortress succession gamesOriginally Posted by Dwarf Fortress 0.40.01 bugs
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Is the squishy or the caster more important? I'm guessing the first, from the last line of the sentence, but that could be an important distinction, since it rather changes what counts as being an example of that type of character in some cases, and thus can considerably alter how a given person sees and answers the question.
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There was a really good gay TF2 web comic.
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You mean Cuanta Vida, maybe?
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A transdimensional warp opens and out steps...
...your Gender Identity twin!
This twin has the same gender identity that you have, but another kind of body. Women's twin has a male body and the other way around. So I would get a trans man. Genderqueer, gender fluid, etc. get a cis of whatever sex they were assigned at birth.
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2012-04-16, 08:28 AM (ISO 8601)
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Rebecca Watson - Women's Intuition and Other Fairy Tales (contains a bit of explicit language)
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2012-04-16, 08:29 AM (ISO 8601)
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Hmm.
I as a female both in gender and in biology am only recently starting to wear more girly clothing (only at Uni did I start regularly wearing skirts - before, I wore skirts up to the age of about 10/11, and at 18, and that's it). However, I guess if this girl in front of me had a male body, he'd be taking a little more care of himself.
It'd all depend on environment as well. If this twin was brought up exactly the same as I was, she'd probably be doing the same thing as I am now - starting to wear more feminine stuff, except she'd be doing it because she'll have realised that the reason she felt odd wasn't just because she was a geek. She'd probably only realise this sort of thing at university age, because before then while she'd know of the LGBTQA culture and all the people in it, she'll have assumed she's just cis-hetero.
So probably would have long, damaged, curly/frizzy hair that she's starting to repair and try to fix up (more so than I am now), and possibly be looking into learning more about sorting themselves out to be more feminine, but otherwise look much like me, clothing-wise - a little gothy fancy stuff, mostly jeans/tshirts. Probably more jeans/tshirts, due to having less confidence in themselves due to the confusion? Definitely would be less confident, even if they portrayed a confident aura about them.
If they were brought up differently? Who knows. They could look entirely different.Last edited by Castaras; 2012-04-16 at 08:31 AM.
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2012-04-16, 08:33 AM (ISO 8601)
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Heard about that comic, I should check it out sometime.
Okay, so we've also decided that since female clothing stores tend to sell overpriced stuff that, in polite words, don't match my style at all, next time my boyfriend looks for men's clothes, I'm gonna go with him. He also gave me a few tips. I'm embarrassed, I do have women's clothes (which are not feminine at all actually), but I have no clue or remembrance where I got them from.
That, plus the hair I'm gonna cut short this week... femininity is overrated.
Also, at the next convention, my boyfriend and I are going to go as England and America from Axis Powers Hetalia*. He'd suggested I do the female version of America, but seeing how much I like cosplaying as the opposite gender, and that only the original male character has glasses (like I do)...
@Asta Kask: a vaguely confusing transwoman who's not feminine at all and still goes to men's clothing stores.
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2012-04-16, 08:48 AM (ISO 8601)
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Ooh, ooh, happy birthday, noparlf!
This very much, and that's the biggest problem I have with it being handled because assigned neutrality seems to be actually limiting people's expression. In my eyes the best way to deal with it is to let everyone express themselves in the way they want; don't limit that.
I'm curious though to what degree we pick up on mannerisms and preferences because they are deemed gender appropriate; I know I picked up several "female" mannerism from my mum when I was younger thinking back before sorta suppressing them. But this could just be me applying posterior knowledge to things.
*blabbers on*
Men being protectors and women being nurturers is sorta one of the most basic gender stereotypes; so it's no surprise it shows up in games.
Awesomes!
Well, I guess it makes sense that women's bodies are a lot more idealized; because they're also a lot more meant to be looked at from a societal view.
This so much, self-fulfilling prophecy much? And it goes beyond gender even; I very much dislike how society places so much emphasis on being self-reliant and flawless and not needing support which just creates a horrible attitude of shame around seeking help. (eg how stigmatized therapy and such is. And basically society's entire attitude towards people who don't fit in what society considers able-bodied.)
The main problem with second wave feminism is as I understand that it failed to take in account intersectionality properly. Which of course is a pretty big failing and leads to the origin of things as womanism to better address the issues of all women; and not just able-bodied, cis, white women. You can't address discrimination without taking in account the various lines (race, sexuality, gender, able-bodyness, wealth, class, ... ) along which it plays. The issues of a woman of colour are different from those of a white women, etc... And that's what third wave feminism tries to tackle. (Not saying that there aren't some pretty dividing points of discussion in third wave either; attitude on sex work / pornography is a pretty divisive issue I can think of right now.)
(It doesn't help either that the main group that still adheres to second wave feminism are rad fems; of whom a large part holds some very transphobic opinions. (Janice Raymond, "The transsexual Empire".) And that's just completely counter to the whole idea of feminism; even if you just center feminism around the idea of equality for women; then 2nd wave sorta fails in recognizing that it should be for ALL WOMEN, regardless if they're trans*, WOC, etc... And ideally, feminism should stand for Equality (for everyone, regardless of status, gender, sexuality, wealth, ability, ... ). Which is why the name is a tad unfortunate these days; but anti-kyriarchy folks doesn't mouth well.
Oh, the waves of feminism are also sorta dependent on how far feminist issues are being tackled. And of course very much influenced by the actual feminists authors, warriors, etc... at work. I think it can be sorta summarized as: First Wave dealt mostly with legal issues; with voting rights being the central issue; Second Wave focused more on sexuality and reproduction rights and Third Wave focuses on addressing a lot issues with the 2nd Wave line of thinking and adding in intersectionality.
(This is of course very brief and I'm not really schooled on feminist history, so take it with a grain of salt.)Last edited by Astrella; 2012-04-16 at 08:54 AM.
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Bleh.
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SpoilerI have/have had a couple of female friends who emphaticall NEVER WANT KIDS EW NO. And without fail every time it just makes me go WELL AT LEAST YOU HAVE THE CHOICE AND HERE YOU ARE THROWING IT AWAY.
...it upsets me.
(This isn't a rant at you, kender, just it made me think of it. In fact, it's entirely possible I've mentioned this before...)Last edited by Lix Lorn; 2012-04-16 at 09:50 AM.
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