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2018-07-25, 04:40 PM (ISO 8601)
- Join Date
- Dec 2015
- Location
- An igloo near you
- Gender
Re: LGBTAI+ #59: Will You Take This Woman To Be Your Galpal?
My completely awesome avatar (I call her Quill) has been generously crafted by the esteemed Honest Tiefling!
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Gosh, 2D8HP, you are so very correct (and also good-looking) and your humility is stunning.
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2018-07-25, 11:24 PM (ISO 8601)
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- Aug 2009
Re: LGBTAI+ #59: Will You Take This Woman To Be Your Galpal?
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2018-07-26, 02:35 AM (ISO 8601)
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- Jan 2007
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Re: LGBTAI+ #59: Will You Take This Woman To Be Your Galpal?
I'm doing pretty well. I be an amazing girlfriend that I'm sickeningly in love with, my brother and his wife have moved out (don't get me wrong, I like them both, but we are incompatible housemates and it was doing bad things to my mental health), and I have a final stage interview on Monday that if all goes well will let me move up north like I've been wanting to for months. I have friends, a decent social life, and overall my life is pretty great right now.
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2018-07-26, 06:46 AM (ISO 8601)
- Join Date
- May 2010
- Location
- Israel
Re: LGBTAI+ #59: Will You Take This Woman To Be Your Galpal?
Sure!
For the longest time i always had this underlying sense that i never really like how """gender""" functions in society, and by the time i discovered what non-binaryness means i was already well into ending my teenage years and have been living in a 100% bknary gendered language (hebrew) so i dismissed these feelings as mere doubt or part of my overall depression to ignore.
For the last few years i legit started thinking about myself in terms of gender and while i still hated the binary i was way too comfy with being Male and percieved as such to consider otherwise.
A few days ago i saw a post from a person asking if its valid to be enby while still wantjng to present 100% femme with she/her pronouns and the positive responses helped everything click in my brain.
Basically i like all pronouns with preference to neutral ones.
The biggest hurdle was language, but its not like im gonna come out to my immidiate surrounding, heh.Despite everything, its still me.
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2018-07-26, 07:42 AM (ISO 8601)
- Join Date
- Mar 2011
- Gender
Re: LGBTAI+ #59: Will You Take This Woman To Be Your Galpal?
Sent in a petition to change my surname and the form they sent back uses "his/her/their" wherever there's a pronoun.
Jude P.
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2018-07-26, 09:23 AM (ISO 8601)
- Join Date
- May 2016
Re: LGBTAI+ #59: Will You Take This Woman To Be Your Galpal?
I'm soon starting a job. I'm out there all for the world to see with a nametag that reads my name. My bosses have been good so far in the talks and very forthcoming (I can take my Uniform with and dress at home and can avoid the whole changing room situation that way)
Other than that I'm kinda suffering from lovesickness and lonelyness lately and wondering if I'm poly, because I'm more or less hard crushing on like...5 people rn...could just be my hormones tho.
@AuthorGirl: I'm sorry for your loss and your situation.Last edited by Sahe; 2018-07-26 at 09:25 AM.
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2018-07-26, 02:35 PM (ISO 8601)
- Join Date
- Dec 2007
- Location
- DC
- Gender
Re: LGBTAI+ #59: Will You Take This Woman To Be Your Galpal?
Hi all, just popping in to say a great big thanks. I came out to a select few people in my life a few years ago after at least a decade of questioning, but was still a little unsure since I really only had experience dating the opposite sex. Long story short, I've had a lot of validating experiences as a queer man as of late and am feeling super confident and comfortable, so thank you all for building such a wonderful community to help me through that journey. Much love.
To know that just one life has breathed easier because you have lived, that is to have succeeded.
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The Opera Hall
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2018-07-28, 06:38 AM (ISO 8601)
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- Oct 2015
- Location
- Berlin
- Gender
Re: LGBTAI+ #59: Will You Take This Woman To Be Your Galpal?
Some inspirational stuff. This link leads to an article about 1st generation trans people and how they have aged and are happy with their transition. Run it thru google translate as usual.
https://www.zeit.de/zeit-magazin/201...essa-fabbre-fs
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2018-07-30, 03:32 AM (ISO 8601)
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- Oct 2008
- Location
- Bottom of a well
Re: LGBTAI+ #59: Will You Take This Woman To Be Your Galpal?
Hi folks. I stopped coming here for a while, but I found myself missing the playground and figured I'd poke my head in and say hi, and maybe get in the habit of checking back in regularly.
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2018-07-31, 12:51 AM (ISO 8601)
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- May 2018
- Location
- Spokane, WA
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Re: LGBTAI+ #59: Will You Take This Woman To Be Your Galpal?
Being trans and gender fluid wrecked my life. If I were born as a girl ppls wouldn't hate and despise me. If I were born as a girl they would treat me the way I wanna be treated and see me the way I see myself. Yet they don't and never will. I have to get a costly, traumatic surgery just to live the life I need to live. Or else I am gonna drown in all my sorrows and never recover.
"What did she say? What did he say? You don't listen 'cause you know everything." By Ariana Grande
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2018-07-31, 02:36 AM (ISO 8601)
- Join Date
- Feb 2010
- Location
- Home
Re: LGBTAI+ #59: Will You Take This Woman To Be Your Galpal?
Alamryn Kven, a druid who tries very hard not to be useless.
Celesta Halla, a fearless barbarian.
Jheren Falconer, a drifter ranger.
Rhenner Calami, a snarky medic with an untrustworthy memory.
DMing Ljonarian Enigma: Imperial Affairs and The Pirate Dream: Sliced Heart
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2018-07-31, 04:31 AM (ISO 8601)
- Join Date
- May 2012
- Location
- Germany
Re: LGBTAI+ #59: Will You Take This Woman To Be Your Galpal?
In my family we frequently swap clothes around - brother wore my grandpa's suit to his wedding, I have old skirts from my mom and my brother's old winter jacket, a close family friend recently got several of my late grandma's dresses, etc. This led to a cute conversation between my mom and me yesterday
Mom:"You need to find a boyfriend who can wear this old pink dress of mine because I doubt it will ever fit me again and it's not your or [sister]'s style."
Me: "Boyfriend?"
Mom: "Or girlfriend. Having some boobs would be necessary for the dress to fit properly, I guess."
Me: "Well, push-up bras and such are always an option~"
I'm honestly not even surprised that my mom's first thought for "person to wear a dress" was "guy who likes dresses" and not "girl", considering any partner of mine would have to be very queer, and my sister's girlfriend would never voluntarily wear a dress.You can call me Juniper. Please use gender-neutral pronouns (ze/hir (preferred) or they/them) when referring to me.
"We all are vessels of our brokenness, we carry it inside us like water, careful not to spill. And what is wholeness if not brokenness encompassed in acceptance, the warmth of its power a shield against those who would hurt us?" - R. Lemberg, Geometries of Belonging
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2018-07-31, 05:17 AM (ISO 8601)
- Join Date
- Feb 2010
- Location
- Home
Re: LGBTAI+ #59: Will You Take This Woman To Be Your Galpal?
Alamryn Kven, a druid who tries very hard not to be useless.
Celesta Halla, a fearless barbarian.
Jheren Falconer, a drifter ranger.
Rhenner Calami, a snarky medic with an untrustworthy memory.
DMing Ljonarian Enigma: Imperial Affairs and The Pirate Dream: Sliced Heart
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2018-07-31, 08:01 AM (ISO 8601)
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- Aug 2009
Re: LGBTAI+ #59: Will You Take This Woman To Be Your Galpal?
I bought falsies online yesterday. Waiting anxiously for them to arrive.
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2018-07-31, 11:34 AM (ISO 8601)
- Join Date
- May 2018
- Location
- Spokane, WA
- Gender
Re: LGBTAI+ #59: Will You Take This Woman To Be Your Galpal?
"What did she say? What did he say? You don't listen 'cause you know everything." By Ariana Grande
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2018-07-31, 01:54 PM (ISO 8601)
- Join Date
- Apr 2007
- Location
- The third dimension
- Gender
Re: LGBTAI+ #59: Will You Take This Woman To Be Your Galpal?
Hey, all. It's been quite some time since I've posted on these forums, though I've been reading stuff here pretty regularly. A lot has happened, much of it negative, but still some positive stuff. I don't really want to compress almost a year's worth of stuff into one post, but there are some things I want to talk about with someone who's had similar experiences. Not all of it is LGBTAI+ related, but some of it is so I'd feel more comfortable seeking support here. I've been trying to process some neglect and violence from my early childhood, along with the severe mental illnesses (specifically schizophrenia and OCD) that began around that time, and how it relates to the way I process my gender and sexuality. I know that's pretty broad, but if anyone has personal experience with that sort of stuff, or experience helping others deal with it, I would appreciate being able to talk through private messages or other private means.
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2018-07-31, 02:01 PM (ISO 8601)
- Join Date
- Jul 2014
- Location
- Avatar By Astral Seal!
Re: LGBTAI+ #59: Will You Take This Woman To Be Your Galpal?
I have a LOT of Homebrew!
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2018-07-31, 04:27 PM (ISO 8601)
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- May 2018
- Location
- Spokane, WA
- Gender
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2018-08-01, 02:57 AM (ISO 8601)
- Join Date
- Oct 2008
- Location
- Bottom of a well
Re: LGBTAI+ #59: Will You Take This Woman To Be Your Galpal?
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2018-08-01, 12:05 PM (ISO 8601)
- Join Date
- Apr 2007
- Location
- The third dimension
- Gender
Re: LGBTAI+ #59: Will You Take This Woman To Be Your Galpal?
I hate to back out right now, but an urgent medical issue has just arisen that I need to prioritize. I will talk about it here once I have some more information, which could take a while. Thank you for the offers of support, and the support I've gotten in the past.
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2018-08-06, 09:03 PM (ISO 8601)
- Join Date
- Jan 2012
- Location
- Alaska
- Gender
Re: LGBTAI+ #59: Will You Take This Woman To Be Your Galpal?
Experienced a mildly traumatic assault attempt at work the other day. Mildly. Took a few days to get over it anyways. So I am looking for a change of career now so I can stop having to worry about that happening again.
Very frustrated because I am simultaneously overqualified for everything and underqualified for anything. Trying to figure out career resources, ugh. Having very little luck explaining to people how high 'portability of career' ranks on shoring up the bottom of Maslow's Pyramid for me, so they need to please stop trying to talk about ultimate job fulfillment if it's not addressing that piece.
"Oh, but wouldn't you rather have a job that makes you feel fulfilled?"
"If it means having to work in some oddball job opening that only exists in a couple of red states with no ability to relocate on short notice? No."
"Error, does not compute! Wouldn't you rather have a job that makes you feel fulfilled?"
"*sigh*""We were once so close to heaven, Peter came out and gave us medals declaring us 'The nicest of the damned'.."
- They Might Be Giants, "Road Movie To Berlin"
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2018-08-06, 10:16 PM (ISO 8601)
- Join Date
- Oct 2008
- Location
- Bottom of a well
Re: LGBTAI+ #59: Will You Take This Woman To Be Your Galpal?
Ugh, with you on that. I have a career I actually like, and people keep trying to not so subtly tell me I should be unhappy with it because it's in some way "beneath me."
I just want a job that makes me feel like I'm doing something meaningful and doesn't make me want to jump in front of a bus, and this is the thing that lets me meet my own needs.
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2018-08-11, 12:13 AM (ISO 8601)
- Join Date
- May 2018
- Location
- Spokane, WA
- Gender
Re: LGBTAI+ #59: Will You Take This Woman To Be Your Galpal?
I'm gonna be honest: I don't like my life. I had more fun doing a dead end job that was highly unsafe... because? I dunno. I love my friends, here and offline. I love the staff at the building, and counselors, and even the helpful... c-cops. I just don't love myself. And I can't make myself love myself. So like... what's up with this constant deep depression that goes to happiness and up and down all day? Like I go from really loving and trusting the world to feeling so sad I wanna disappear. It has nothing to do with transition. It's like my brain is exploding from stress and sadness and moodiness and something is missing? I dunno what's missing from my life?
"What did she say? What did he say? You don't listen 'cause you know everything." By Ariana Grande
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2018-08-11, 06:03 AM (ISO 8601)
- Join Date
- Jul 2006
- Location
- Eastern US
- Gender
Re: LGBTAI+ #59: Will You Take This Woman To Be Your Galpal?
Hello. My name is Inigo Montoya. You killed my father. Prepare to die.
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2018-08-12, 03:20 PM (ISO 8601)
- Join Date
- May 2018
- Location
- Spokane, WA
- Gender
Re: LGBTAI+ #59: Will You Take This Woman To Be Your Galpal?
I am on them they may not be working. The only medicine that feels like it 'works' I'm taking right now is quietiapine, seroquel, whatevs. And the side effects were making it difficult to become fully awake or walk around. Do I really wanna have a working anti-depressant with side effects or is there some way to stop hating my life naturally?
A-Anyone? Ah ha ha."What did she say? What did he say? You don't listen 'cause you know everything." By Ariana Grande
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2018-08-12, 04:59 PM (ISO 8601)
- Join Date
- Jul 2018
- Location
- Arizona USA
- Gender
Re: LGBTAI+ #59: Will You Take This Woman To Be Your Galpal?
Is location not an issue? Because I have a suspicion that the typical lack of sunlight in your neck of the woods probably isn't helping.
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2018-08-12, 05:43 PM (ISO 8601)
- Join Date
- May 2010
- Location
- Its Complicated
- Gender
Re: LGBTAI+ #59: Will You Take This Woman To Be Your Galpal?
I've had similar problems with anti-depressants making me a zombie with no creativity or motivation. For me not being on SSRIs ended up being a better choice because while I may have to deal with more depression and anxiety symptoms, I actually have the drive to get out there and do stuff and to take better care of myself, including therapy. To each their own though, for some people anti-depressants are lifesavers.
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2018-08-12, 05:45 PM (ISO 8601)
- Join Date
- May 2010
- Location
- Its Complicated
- Gender
Re: LGBTAI+ #59: Will You Take This Woman To Be Your Galpal?
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2018-08-12, 06:03 PM (ISO 8601)
- Join Date
- Jul 2018
- Location
- Arizona USA
- Gender
Re: LGBTAI+ #59: Will You Take This Woman To Be Your Galpal?
The remoteness can't be helpful, either, I'd think.
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2018-08-12, 06:14 PM (ISO 8601)
- Join Date
- May 2010
- Location
- Its Complicated
- Gender