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2012-04-11, 08:06 AM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP - Part 22: The Best There Is
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2012-04-11, 11:18 AM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP - Part 22: The Best There Is
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2012-04-11, 11:21 AM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP - Part 22: The Best There Is
TIL that I mind "she" while feeling male a lot less than I mind "he" when feeling female. Weird.
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2012-04-11, 12:36 PM (ISO 8601)
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2012-04-11, 12:43 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP - Part 22: The Best There Is
It does, but you are eventually kicked out of the poll if you give mostly heterosexual responses (concerning who you had sex with recently); I assume the poll doesn't reject heterosexual transexuals.
I said I wasn't trans, said I was asexual when given the choice of my sexual orientation, then a bit later said I had sex with a single man. I've tried responding I was attracted to no one, and also that I was attracted to men, but both still lead me to getting kicked out. (I suppose the early questions I got on self-identification were irrelevant to my getting kicked out, so I'm not detailing my answers for these).
So yeah.Originally Posted by on Dwarf Fortress succession gamesOriginally Posted by Dwarf Fortress 0.40.01 bugs
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2012-04-11, 12:48 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP - Part 22: The Best There Is
Just a ROCK?!?!?! And I suppose Gaja just sells grape juice, does he?!
*deep breath* Well, I guess not all of us have dwarven aesthetics. But stay out of my cave.
I'm sorry, my gorgeous creature, but Mabel is the only woman for me. I would still give you a jewel, though. For some reason I think of lapis lazuli for you -- the best gold-flecked indigo blue kind. Would you like that?
Kind of like the cover to the Rolling Stones album "Live Licks"?
*hugs* Thank you.
I usually regret these lovelorn moods that settle on me, though, since I have lots of love in my life -- just because none of it is the sticky stychomythic stick-it-to-me-baby sort doesn't make it less precious.
Amazing. Praying mantises are my favourite insects: I wish they lived in my area. I like how they develop, growing new features every time they shed. It's like they gain levels.
Have you enjoyed the pleasure of men before, or is it a heretofore unrequited background desire? Maybe if you swing for a little while and get it out of your system, you will return to your sexuality comfort zone.
Going to bars alone is only boring if you don't wind up meeting people. Not just for hook-ups, I mean, but for chats too. If it's boring, perhaps ur doin it rong?
Our distance aside, I would offer you some experiences except that you'd never go back to women after.
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2012-04-11, 02:25 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP - Part 22: The Best There Is
Do it anyway! It'll give an option for "do not experience sexual attraction". Apparently Musashi got kicked out but I imagine the reason still gets logged so it might still help.
That is so weird. I gave "heterosexual" responses to the sex questions, having only had sex with one person who is not of the same gender or biological sex to me, and I got to the end. Does it tell you why you get kicked out? I mean, if you answer all those different ways, are you sure it's not a glitch of some kind?
There there. We may be approaching the rocks from different viewpoints but I think we can be rock allies. The rock and mineral appreciation that joins us is stronger than the technical viewpoints that separate.
Heyyyy.
Cheerfairy, Kenderwoman and Geologist by Succubus, Feminist Geomancer by Astrella, Kender Wizard by me
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2012-04-11, 02:26 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP - Part 22: The Best There Is
The latter and yeah I've thought about that.
Probably. I guess I'm just used to going with friends and chatting with strangers that are not brought in by the friends has always been an afterthought. More of a spur of the moment decision at three or four in the morning that yes I would like to meet someone new or go home with someone tonight.
Having seen your picture I don't think I would I mind"Elephant trunks should be used for elephant things only. Nothing else."
Thank you Geomancer for the Death avatar.
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2012-04-11, 02:42 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP - Part 22: The Best There Is
*Hugs*
That's no fun at all. ;_;
I hope future surveys will be less strange, because you would definitively make it a much better survey. ^_^
I tried, and then got excluded because I didn't notice that I am almost three months too young to participate.
Sorry for making a fuss about not being included in a survey I am too young to do. m(_ _)m.Treasured Quotes
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2012-04-11, 03:02 PM (ISO 8601)
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2012-04-11, 03:12 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP - Part 22: The Best There Is
Oh, that's perfectly fine, I was just being a tad curious.
Croatia is currently handling their membership, that's probably why.
I started filling it out, but then they started asking about the requirements for legal gender change (why are they even asking this? Can't they look it up themselves?) and because I've been too scared to look those up myself yet I gave up... ._.
Ugggh. :c
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2012-04-11, 03:23 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP - Part 22: The Best There Is
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2012-04-11, 03:28 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP - Part 22: The Best There Is
I don't think it's a glitch, it basically thanked me for wanting to take the survey but that I wasn't part of the target group. I just tried again, saying I didn't know who I was attracted to this time, and I still won't go further.
*shrugs* It's no big deal for me. I barely qualify as an LGBT+ individual, if at all, anyway.
Oh, by the way, I took the test in French (it being my first language), but I don't think it had an influence on the rest... did it?Originally Posted by on Dwarf Fortress succession gamesOriginally Posted by Dwarf Fortress 0.40.01 bugs
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2012-04-11, 03:56 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP - Part 22: The Best There Is
*Hugs noparlpf and his ex*
*Also hugs TechnoScrabble*
Spider in the middle of the rainforest, adorable. Spider in the room OH DEAR GOD KILL IT WITH FIRE!
Huh. Lost one.
Yes, for the record, KenderWizard did indeed suggest the signature. I'm exploring options, but that wouldn't work for me; I have just enough synesthesia-type stuff going that it would be ... Like changing my tone and inflection and attitude only for the very last word of a conversation.
I am trying to find a suitable ASCII wizard hat now though
Yes and no. As was said before In this thread; "he used to be bisexual. Now he's monogamous" (implying that once you've got your one partner you shouldn't look around ever, not promiscuity on part of bisexuals).
There's probably a good reason for that. This is one of those times when that's not necessarily important, though. *Hugs*
I'm American, so I'm not really able to take it in the first place. That's pretty messed-up, though. *Hugs*
Just a rock? Since when were rocks mundane? We're made of salt and carbon!
I should be careful with that school of thought, though - there's no way I could put up with having a beard.
Kind of like the cover to the Rolling Stones album "Live Licks"?
*hugs* Thank you.
I usually regret these lovelorn moods that settle on me, though, since I have lots of love in my life -- just because none of it is the sticky stychomythic stick-it-to-me-baby sort doesn't make it less precious.
I won't judge you for feeling that way. There's certainly nothing wrong with it. *More hugs*
Amazing. Praying mantises are my favourite insects: I wish they lived in my area. I like how they develop, growing new features every time they shed. It's like they gain levels.
*Facepalm* *Hugs*
~Bianca
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2012-04-11, 04:03 PM (ISO 8601)
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2012-04-11, 04:03 PM (ISO 8601)
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2012-04-11, 04:36 PM (ISO 8601)
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>:|
Edit: Well I guess I shouldn't feel too bad because I don't even live in the EU.Last edited by noparlpf; 2012-04-11 at 04:36 PM.
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2012-04-11, 04:41 PM (ISO 8601)
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2012-04-11, 04:49 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP - Part 22: The Best There Is
That's exactly what I got! Well, the same, but in French, and incidentally, I've heard that everything sounds sexier in French. Although it didn't really sound sexy at all. Oh, look at the time, it's Random-Babblin'o'clock.
Aww, why so nice, everyone? *free hugs*Originally Posted by on Dwarf Fortress succession gamesOriginally Posted by Dwarf Fortress 0.40.01 bugs
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2012-04-11, 05:10 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP - Part 22: The Best There Is
Oh, wow. I did not enjoy that survey at all. :(!
Emotional rant ahead: (spoilered due to content related to sexual assault and difficult stuff)
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At one point there's a bunch of questions regarding the most serious physical or sexual assault that's happened to you in the past five years.
I was the victim of a sexual assault some years ago, and being asked a bunch of questions about the situation (and the offender (and how I handled it)) by a machine survey has shaken me pretty badly.
The worst part is, I can't help but feel that I'm being too sensitive about it and am being selfish for wishing they had put some kind of trigger warning up before.
Except that there really is no being too sensitive about this. Or at least, it is obvious that it stirred up a whole lot of bad feelings and I have to acknowledge them now I'm aware of them.
I guess they decided not to include a "skip this if it makes you uncomfortable"-button for practical reasons, but that doesn't really prevent me from feeling weird now.
I guess what I can take with me from the survey is that I'm not done working with it. Complicated. *sigh*
Of course, it doesn't help that the assault has been surfacing the past few weeks due to a guy I met in a bar who wanted me to be more... assertive in our .. conversation - and that started a lot of thoughts about power, powerlessness and how I feel about my body and other people. Kind of hard to talk about in polite company, but I hope I haven't stepped on anyone's toes.
And I really needed to get this off my chest.
Also.
Hello! I guess it's been.. months? since I posted here. *waves*
I've been lurking a bit, though. You're still pretty swell. :)
It's SPRING in Denmark, and aside from days with pouring rain, time for wearing short shorts and reading books outside. Book reading is, of course, mainly a front for looking at cute guys in short shorts.
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2012-04-11, 05:17 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP - Part 22: The Best There Is
Poems!
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( Please pardon any garbled posts. I prefer face to face communication then text, and I also don't read whole threads, so I may just put in my 2cp.)
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2012-04-11, 05:31 PM (ISO 8601)
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Thanks to all my avatar artists, especially to Paisley for my avatar of Vivian, cowardly cryophoenix.
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2012-04-11, 06:07 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP - Part 22: The Best There Is
You can delete posts in the Edit section.
Oh geez. *hugs* if wanted. A couple of years ago I had a rather..."forward" admirer (female), and ended up in a pretty awkward situation because I'm totally good at handling situations like that. So I have a slight inkling how you might feel, although nothing like as extreme as your experience.
I'm really sorry, I think I recognise your name, but I don't remember you well. Would you mind reintroducing yourself?Jude P.
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2012-04-11, 06:15 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP - Part 22: The Best There Is
I have pretty obvious admirers of both sexes. Thing is, one of them I've known since we were in the first grade. If anything, it's incredibly awkward for her to bring up totally irrelevant topics when I haven't spoken to her.
And she does it all the time, gives me these weird looks, and then looks away, etc. It's bizarre and frustrating.Steam username is Triscuitable.
I got VAC banned in COD: Ghosts for using an FOV changer.
I try not to think of how sad that is.
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2012-04-11, 06:16 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP - Part 22: The Best There Is
Last edited by pffh; 2012-04-11 at 06:17 PM.
"Elephant trunks should be used for elephant things only. Nothing else."
Thank you Geomancer for the Death avatar.
My lets plays:
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2012-04-11, 06:19 PM (ISO 8601)
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By "awkward" I meant "culminated in her pretending she had been too drunk the previous night to remember what she did".
I think they said that if one felt uncomfortable answering a question one could put "I don't know" instead, but that's not really a "dude watch out this might bring up traumatic memories" kind of warning.Jude P.
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2012-04-11, 06:37 PM (ISO 8601)
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2012-04-11, 07:26 PM (ISO 8601)
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First off, *hugs*.
Second, you're Demisexual - 'technically straight' or not, you're definitely LGBT+. It's pretty messed-up that that survey overlooked you (and Nope for that matter, but at least he isn't European).
Clearly, we need to make asterisk-shaped LED's. What do you mean, "eye strain"?
*Hugs* I can understand how frustrating that is for both of you. :/
~BiancaLast edited by Arachu; 2012-04-11 at 07:59 PM.
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